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Contents

Acknowledgments

Preface

Part I: Losing Community

1. Losing Touch

  • Caretakers
  • The Crumbling Network
  • Loss of Community
  • The Market for Intimacy
  • The Power of Anonymity

2. The Trade-ins

  • Mobility: The Stewardess Syndrome "Friendship"
  • Growing up Gypsy
  • Privacy: Everyone a Howard Hughes
  • "Autonomy-Withdrawal
  • Unknown Killers
  • Convenience: The Dishwasher Gap
  • The Shrinking Kitchen
  • Slot-Machine Meals
  • Noise
  • Cars
  • Against Community
  • Of the Car, By the Car, and For the Car

Part II: Seeking Community

3. "And All in the Privacy of Your Own Home"

  • Here's ... Community!
  • Family by Subscription
  • Let Your Fingers Do the Walking

4. The National Home Town

  • Someone You Know, Wherever You Go
  • Laundro-Mating
  • Trust
  • Uniforms
  • Sticking Together
  • No Place for Intimacy

5. Handi-Dispoz Community

  • Weekend Romance
  • All My Friends Are Gonna' Be Strangers -- And My Lovers
  • The "Freeway On-Ramp" Search
  • Queue Community
  • Audience
  • Just Add Hot Dogs and Stir
  • A Ten-Block Commitment
  • "I'm Community, Fly Me"

6. Serve the Community, Be the Community

  • Centering
  • From Bureaucracy to Brotherhood
  • "Family"
  • Agapurgy
  • Loneliness, Loneliness, Loneliness

Part III: Building Community

7. Known at Last!

  • The Fear of Being Known
  • New Approaches to Intimacy
  • Happiness
  • Tragically Known
  • Turn Back the Clock
  • Waiting on Uncle Sam
  • Take to the Hills!
  • Let's Get to Work!
  • What's "Community"?
  • Prescott
  • Stages of Community
  • Defining Community
  • Non-Residential Community

8. Blocks in Building Community

  • Manageable Size
  • Exclusion
  • Oppression
  • Commitment

9. Tools

  • Sources
  • A Hangout
  • Shared Hardship
  • A Sense of Deviance
  • Keeping the Air Clear
  • Ritual
  • A Culture All Your Own
  • Other Tools
  • My Communities
  • In Closing ...

Notes

 

 

 


© Ralph Keyes

 
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