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Reader Response

It's my #1 favorite book of all time.
Toronto, Ontario
To have conceived the
idea for Is There Life After High School? and dismissed it would have
been almost criminal. ... I am convinced there is no other time that is
as intense and kaleidoscopical. Frank Zappa is right: high school is a
state of mind. You are right: high school can be exorcised. But,
sometimes I'm not sure I want to exorcise high school. The pink and gray
saddle-oxfords I wear please me.
Fayetteville, Arkansas
I laughed, cried, and
identified my way through Is There Life After High School? I thought I
was the only person in the world who thought of the innies as still,
until this day, having movie star quality.
San Francisco, California
Absolutely super! My
palms are still sweating.
New York, New York
I read Is There Life
After High School? (a provocative title, if ever I saw one) last
Saturday, neglecting most of my Saturday errands to do so, and staying
indoors when the weather was good. It's really great! I was impressed by
the throwaways as much as by the main conclusions: the fact that the
social values of the school reflect the size (and age) of the community,
that they also reflect the general community orientation and value
system. I was fascinated by what Mr. Keyes had found about the "famous"
people in high school, too. He seems to have been very thorough in his
researches, and he seems to have enjoyed himself in the process. I've
already recommended the book with great enthusiasm to the mother of
teenagers and one teacher of social studies at the high school level, as
well as to one college student.
Boston, Massachusetts
It's a delicious book, as
able to invade the insides of our generation as a chocolate malt. I was
surprised that so many driven people were fueled by desires to throw
their success in the face of faded high school peers ...
Santa Monica, California
Is There Life After High
School? That's agood question. It's also a very good book. Consider that
the opinion of an outie -- or was I an innie? I never could be quite
sure, which probably explains why I'm driven to succeed in life.
Scottdale, Pennsylvania
I have just finished
reading your new book Is There Life After High School? Needless to say I
thoroughly enjoyed it. It's the first time I've been able to put into
place my feelings about my high school years. I always knew I was one of
the "outies" and now I realize that I, too, was out for revenge. It's
great to know others feel the same way.
Hartford, Connecticut
Tomorrow night I shall
reread the entire book. It seems to me to be tremendous fun, but
tremendously important.
La Jolla, California
I've just finished your
delightful book. It's the story of my life. How did you know?
Philadelphia,
Pennsylvania
"Life After" prompted
many hours of fun but revealing discussion between my sister (who is 30)
and myself (24). I was an innie who always felt like an outie, and she
could have been an innie at being an outie.
Topeka, Kansas
I have just read your
book Is There Life After High School? It is wonderful and RIGHT ON! ...
I think you've really hit on the heart of the matter. I'd like to
include this on the reading list for an education class that I teach.
Colorado Springs,
Colorado
When I quickly chose two
paperbacks to take on a trip, your book Is There Life After High School?
was one I chose. I read book reviews looking for likely reading material
in it. the other choice was M*A*S*H Goes to Montreal, and I started it
first, but our ice chest leaked on it and out atlas, so I began your
book, and I'm glad I did -- I think. Now I can't sleep because I keep
remembering my high school years, 1940-1944.
Long Beach, California
I find it very comforting
to know that those of us who were social lepers in school are now
running the world. In thinking back to the last few classes that
graduated here, I realized that while the "outies" had yet to do
anything really great yet, the "innies" were in even worse shape: The
student body president/basketball star/track runner is a box-boy at the
local Safeway; the Prom Queen didn't even finish school ... All in all,
after reading your book I may be tempted to, the next time I see her,
pat the ex-head cheerleader and Senior Ball Queen on the arm and offer
my condolences ... Many thanks for a most enjoyable book.
Hawthorne, Nevada
I'm well into the final
pages of your notes at the end of Is There Life After High School? I've
enjoyed the book tremendously and have urged both my wife and teenage
children to read it.
Allentown, Pennsylvania
Several months ago I
secured a copy of your book Is There Life After High School? Although I
have read and re-read through the book so often it is now battered, I'm
not yet through with it. I cannot thank you enough ...
Alpine, Texas
Thank you again. I have
read the book thrice and skim it every so often.
Kansas City, Missouri
It was like a catharsis.
In the few hours I spent with the book I got rid of about 85% of the
high school that had been on my back since 1959. ... I could write a
book about praise for Is There Life After High School?
Seattle, Washington
It gave me so many
insights. I enjoyed it and only wished I'd read it before my reunion.
I'm now one of your biggest boosters and recommend your book to anyone
contemplating their reunion.
Mercer Island, Washington
I have just finished your
book Is There Life After High School? I enjoyed it very much. It was
also very relevant because I will be starting high school in the fall.
It is comforting to know that all is not lost if I happen to be an "outie".
Fresno, California
I very much enjoyed your
book. I have already purchased 10 copies to give my friends.
--
I wrote you that I
enjoyed your book so much I was ordering 10 copies. Last year for our
high school reunion, I ordered 125 copies which left me several to give
out to my friends.
Kansas City, Missouri
I read your book Is There
Life After High School? and felt gratified and vindicated. I wanted to
shake it under the noses of my grownup, skeptical, "I'm through with all
that" friends and say "see!? see!?" ... your book is a very accurate
description of high school and its effects on people. The paragraph on
breast size being a medium of exchange rang so true that I reread it
several times for the reverberations. How true. How discouraging. Oh,
well. Thanks for a great book, for taking something seriously which has
too long been ignored.
Minneapolis, Minnesota
That book was my bible in
high school.
Redwood, California
It solved a lot of
problems for me.
Schenectady, New York
I love this book. I keep
telling people they have to read it.
Northmont, Ohio
I have just finished
reading your book Is There Life After High School? I am a junior in high
school and I don't want to sound too dramatic, but it has changed my
life. I am at the bottom of the innies group, and it's hard. ... The
other night at a dance it was slow-dance time and, as always, a friend
of mine and myself were left to sit out. this always happens to us. (My
friend has read your book also). All of a sudden we looked at each other
and started laughing at ourselves. We know that as long as we are in
high school it won't change, but since your book came along, at least we
know it will improve. My friend looked at me and said, "Meet me in Las
Vegas after high school." All I could do was to tell her that all those
pretty girls would drown in their own blood. It sounds severe, but it's
nice to know it all will work out. The point is that you've helped all
of us outies and we can't thank you enough.
Park Forest, Illinois
Where did you get
permission to write my biography? ... I loved your book. If I ever have
kids, when they say, "Mom, what were you like in high school?", I'll
squirm a while, sweat a little, and hand them your book.
Valparaiso, Indiana
All set to enjoy your
book, I too early glanced at the back cover of your yearbook picture. I
hated you immediately ... You were the enemy. You were the kind of guy
in high school who was "in things." How DARE you call yourself an outie!
Studio City, California
I was what you would
label an innie. I was a cheerleader, student council member, co-editor
of the the yearbook's student life section, a member of the literary
magazine staff, in the National Honor Society and very active in
intramural sports. I have no regrets about my years of secondary
education and I don't feel that I was as ruthless as the outies you
describe would have me be. ... Another point I would like to argue is
your theory of what happens to innies after they graduate. I don't agree
that all innies end up selling insurance and getting divorced ... I also
must disagree with you that all outies end up running the world. I must
admit, I fall into your stereotype, as I am seeking to obtain a teaching
certificate ("teaching is a field shared by innies"). You said yourself
that "outies control America's means of communication." Does that mean I
shouldn't even try? Where do I fit in?
Plano, Texas
I am a 51 year-old high
school teacher who owns a dog-eared copy of Is There Life After High
School? I have lent the book to many friends and the book is suffering.
Your book is a definite affirmation to those students who have not seen
or realized their potential in high school, but who will later in life.
Denver, Colorado
A sociologist colleague
says he refers to your book every semester!
West Lafayette, Indiana
I hope it can come out
again - and I think it is timeless.
Cleveland, Ohio
Is There Life After
High School?
was an extremely important book to me. It’s only a slight overstatement
to say it saved my life: After a high school career that was
undistinguished, to say the least, I read ‘Is There Life…’ during my
freshman year of college. It showed that things – life – can change.
That’s just what I needed to hear at that point in my life. Is There
Life After High School? showed me that just because you were
unpopular and unsuccessful in high school doesn't mean the rest of your
life has to be a replay of that.
Raleigh,
NC
Is there Life After
High School?
really had a profound affect upon me. There is someone who understands!!!!
Dayton,
OH
Thanks again for
writing such a wonderful book!
Ft. Thomas, KY
I
read your book in about 2 days! Excellent and incredibly relevant ...
your findings are truly timeless.
e-mail
Every time someone talks about going to their high school reunion I tell
them if I ever became Emperor of Washington State I would require every
student who attends their high school reunion to first read Is There
Life After High School? You packed so much wisdom and whimsy into
this little tome!
Mercer Island, WA
I
am reading Is There Life After High School for the first time,
EVER, and well, my interest has been piqued. Gee whiz, Ralph
wrote this 28 YEARS ago? It took me 28 years to find this book? Have I
been living in Guam, under a clam shell? Oh well, when the student is
ready, the teacher appears, even if it does take 28 years.
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